Friday, November 21, 2008
First steps
We missed the very first ones, in childcare with Rebecca. He he repeated his efforts tonight, delightedly tottering two or three steps back and forth between Mum and Dad.
Friday, October 10, 2008
Cillian is 1
Its hard to believe that a year has passed. In some ways it seems so long ago since he was born and so much has happened. In others ways it seems like hardly any time at all.
He remains a very happy baby, chatty and full of life and always keen to play.
He has 7 teeth now and more coming.
He is not walking unaided yet, but will walk pushing a little cart.
He likes to play the xylophone quite vigorously.
Sunday, August 31, 2008
I didn't didn't have quick feet today, so I ran the Heritage trail cautiously , along paths of mud and water, trails of tree roots, down steep steps cut into sandstone and up slick wooden stairs.
To my left was the harbour, grey water under a grey sky and the city shrouded in cloud. I had the trail to myself, except for an old Italian man who cheerfully greet me and I him. Fronds of banksia and fingers of wattle brushed rain onto my arms and face.
There was not a soul on tiny Tingara beach, where I saw a mermaid once, thirty quick paces took me across the soft golden sand and away from the harbour panorama.
It took me nearly an hour to reach Neilson Park from my home, but though the pace was slow I no longer felt tired and I continued happily on through the back streets of Vaucluse to Parsely Bay then towards Watson's Bay. I wished the few walkers and runners that were out and about a good morning and and they responded likewise; its nice that people can still connect in a big city.
At Camp Cove some scuba divers were kitting up. One woman, suited and masked turned and stared at me as though I were a creature from the depths of the sea, an alien in her world.
On the South Head loop I passed an old 19th century muzzle loading cannon and numerous fortifications from the era. Across from me on the other side of the harbour, not far as the gull flies, was an expanse of harbourside parkland, hiding the zoo and countless homes. A ferry headed towards Manly.
I ran past the lightkeepers cottage and the candy striped Hornby lighthouse, saw past the Heads to the Tasman Sea.
I wondered if Sharon and Cillian were up yet and thought how nice it would be for them to see this.
I though of runs with friends, whose company made even the hardes training sessions a pleasure.
At the Gap sulpher crested cockatoos perched on the cliff edge, their lemon tufts standing out against the dark rocks. Brighter still the yellow oilskins of two fishermen standing on a rock ledge. An orange float I saw in the waters far below.
Bondi was quiet; the surfers were enjoying a Sunday morning of decent waves after weeks of heavy mush.
I had been running for 2.5 hours so decided that Bronte was too far and ran the long climb of Bondi Road, through sterile Bondi Junction, where it was still too early for the shoppers. The last few ks home were downhill and that suited me just fine.
The last day of winter and the thirteenth anniversary of my arrival in Sydney and I ran and was happy.
Life
He was so excited yesterday when he noticed the new coffee table, it was as if Santa had come. He loves to stand and there is nothing really in our house that will let him pull himself up, so he spent much of yesterday standing at the table and banging bricks off it.
He is quite mobile now, a speedy enough crawler, but walking is a while off yet, though he is game enough to let go of the table and put his hands out to me.
The silent blog
So what's been happening?
Death and life.
On and on.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Tayto - the feckers
Gavin was kind enough to bring a swag of Tayto and purple Snacks from Ireland when he arrived here on Sunday. I say 'kind enough', but we all know that he would have been on the first plane back to Carlow if he hadn't.
I do like Tayto Cheese n Onion, easily the best chip in the world. No arguments will be brooked. So I immediately grabbed a packet, casually looking at the ingredient list, a habit ingrained though bitter experience.
Tayto have changed their recipe, the feckers. They have added cheese powder. CHEESE POWDER. They have tampered with perfection. Its like the Louvre colouring in the Mona Lisa's lips or adding Mickey Mouse cartoons to the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, cos the kids would go for it.
Tayto was always just potaotes, sunflower oil and honest to goodness artifical flavours and preservatives. Now its got cheese powder.
I will no longer eat this alien product.
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Daddy brain
As the train cleared the Harbour Bridge I glanced on to the road where the start is held and noticed that there were surprisingly few people there.
In fact thre was noone.
Which wasn't all that surprising when I remembered that the race is next Sunday.
So back home and off to Centennial Park for a run in the beautiful late Autumn weather.
Saturday, May 24, 2008
I like it LOUD
Thursday, May 15, 2008
What's over there?
There is a small outdoor area, and a large indoor playspace, the opposite of Holdsworth Street.
There weren't many babies there, like Holdsworth, its mainly toddlers and I was the only man.
Cillian had fun and after we left we visited the library, where our little hero turned on the charm for the librarian.
Not having slept much in the morning, he had a big snooze in the afternoon. In fact we had to wake him for his dinner.
Thankfully, he seems to be sleeping well tonight.
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Playtime
We made some friends and we will be back there soon.
We also visited Lesley McKay's bookshop, a lovely bookstore in Woollahra vilage. I bough two books for Cillian, who was fast asleep in his pushchair. One was 'Goodnight Gorilla' and although mainly just pictures, is one of the funniest books I've read. The other is called 'Choo Choo' about a train journey.
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Shave and a haircut...
After finishing with Joe and seeing that Cillian was in good form, we visited the State Library to see the World Press Photo exhibition. The standard of work on display was superb, focusing mainly on the many conflicts that are spread across the world, but also including nature and sport.
Monday, May 12, 2008
Sitting pretty
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Temporary loss of running mojo
Last Wednesday night I ran a good 3km on the track. Today I ran a 5km time trial in Centennial Park, starting at the corner of Dickens and Parkes in the centre near the water bubbler, then up onto the grand drive for a lap, then returned to the centre the same way I ran out.
Its a 5km run that CoolRunning do, but its a bit long at just over 5.1, possibly 5.2.
I had a solid run but never got to grips with it and even with a time adjusted for 5.1 I was 45s off my target finish time, a lot over 5km.
Still it was a run, which is always a good thing.
1/2 marathon next weekend and the 8km MS Fun Run the Sunday after. I like racing, its fun and the best way to sharpen up.
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Watch out Grant Hackett
We went with Magda and Jan. Jan is a very much a water baby and loves his trips to the pool.
School holidays are over and there was not the crowd of excited kids dashing and splashing about that we had on our last trip, which was good for our little hero.
We made friends with 10 month old Ethan and his mum Skye. Ethan loves the water and will hold onto mums back as she goes for a little swim.
We also made friends with the aqua aerobics instructor and his class of an elderly man and woman. As I was holding both the boys at the time, they wondered if they were twins.
I enjoy being a dad, but holding the two boys in my arm was special. It made me a Dad, someone who will look after not just his own, but all kids.
At Easter we visited with Liz and Rhett down at Gerringong. There was a constant stream of kids wandering through the house to play with our friends' children, not all of whom were known by our hosts. They were never the less welcomed and invited to sit and eat with us and play in the garden.
That's the way it should be.
Monday, May 5, 2008
Shady characters
Its not all fun and games being a stay at home dad you know. There's, well, no wait, it is pretty much all fun and games.
This morning we met Rex and his mum for a walk in Centennial Park. The boys very cleverly coordinated their crying so that when one stopped the other started. A quick pit stop was called for and after a feed two happy little boys played together in that 'are you looking at me?' way of babies.
We are having beautiful Autumn weather.
The sooner my Oakleys come back from the repair shop the better.
Sweet little spider
This is a golden orb weaver that I photographed in Centennial Park. Isn't she a sweetie? There's a very pretty one in our back yard. Her abdomen is quite swollen now as its almost time to lay her eggs. Sadly she will then die. Body length of this type of spider is up to 4cm for the female, although this lady looked bigger. They build fabulously huge webs, of the creepy old mansion variety. The males are tiny, about 1/10th the size of the female.
This year, because we've had such a wet summer and autumn, the spiders have delayed their mating and egg laying and over the last month or so there has been a web building frenzy. A very pretty spider and one of my favourites.
And no, they are not poisonous to humans, indeed are quite reluctant to bite.
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Down to Double Bay
We walked to Double Bay, the little man sleeping until we got to the relative stillness of the library. We chose a quieter road home, the main route was by now clogged with peak hour traffic.
This is a little beach in Double Bay, not too far from where we live. Its usually quiet, just a few people strolling between the village and their homes, or stepping off the ferry from work. Its not a swimming beach, its too small, has no surf and has too many boats moored just offshore. A 5 minute walk away there is a lovely swimming spot called Redleaf. But still, it was nice to spend a few moments there.
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Cillian's world
In the evenings, we stand outside our house and look through the leaves of the jacarandas, black beans and weeping elms for a glimpse of the chattering lorikeets as they zip home to roost in the palms on Alma Street. Cillian tries to grab the leaves of the little frangipani that overhangs from our garden to the street. He tries to grab everything now.
Our cat causes great excitement, little dances of delight whenever he is spotted. Spuddy is considerably less enthusiastic about the sight of Cillian.
His musical butterfly is no longer just for clambering across, but he wholeheartedly thumps its keys to get more sounds and if I haven't turned on his musical mirror, he will soon let me know.
Nor is his play confined to the carpet we have laid down for him on the wooden floor of the living room. He cannot yet crawl, not through lack of effort, but can roll and turn through 360 degrees and do a little caterpillar motion that gets him where he wants to go to more or less. Usually this means his toy box, though yesterday he faced the tv unit, too high for him to reach thankfully and chuckled at the lights of the machines there. I can no longer leave a cup of tea on the floor.
He has always been a people person with smiles for all and sundry, particularly the ladies. Small children he loves and from an early age watched them like a hawk. But now he engages with other babies in a most animated fashion.
Almost seven months and his world expands.
I have to go now, my shoes are coming in for some slobbery attention.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Park Life
Today, Cillian and I went for a walk in nearby Trumper Park.
Trumper park consists of a cricket and football oval, cricket in the Summer and Aussie Rules Football in the Winter. Its also host to Little Athletics and of course, families out to kick a ball or through a frisbee.
Some people still throw frisbees.
Besides that there is a playground and on the escarpment that leads up to Edgecliff, a compact little park with wandering trails, a pond and many trees and shrubs.
We sat at the pond and watched Indian minah birds harass a peewit. Otherwise the park was very quiet. I had brought a book on the slim chance that our little hero would sleep, but no chance of that, so we played some games and had fun.
There aren't many flowers native to Sydney, but there are plenty of flowering shrubs.
The bottle brush that my mother kept as shrubs in the front garden grow as beautiful trees here and they are in bloom now. The frangipani, although not actually a native is very popular here and is nearer the end of its blossoming season.
Anzac Day
When I came to Sydney first there were still some of the original Anzacs, reverently chauffeured in old military vehicles at the head of the parade. The WWII veterans were sprightly men in their 70s and the Vietnam diggers were still relatively young men.
Now the Aussies who fought in the Great War are all gone, there are only 6 or 7 left in the world. The ranks of the Second World War soldiers are growing thinner at an exponential rate and even the men who fought in Vietnam have transitioned from middle age to seniority.
There were young marchers too, as Australians are involved in fresh conflicts like Iraq and Afghanistan and in peace keeping duty in places like East Timor.
Mingled in the ranks were the descendants of those diggers that have passed on.
All marched proudly, smiling despite their weariness. Some of the old blokes looked worn out, but pleased as punch. Old mates helped each other along. Others look like they could have done a second lap of the CDB, buoyed up the claps and cheers of the crowd.
On a day that was at times wet and cool and at other times quite warm, Sydney turned out to pay respect to the men and women who put their lives on the line for this country.
In the late 60s, up until the last decade or so, Anzac Day fell out of favour with the public, seeing it as a glorification of war. This view had thankfully changed and though tones of nationalism have crept into the country, this day is still just one of thanks and remembrance.
There are no convoys of tanks or screaming jets or hovering choppers, just a procession of former and current soldiers, sailors and airman, marching with dignity, pride and good humour.
I brought Cillian along to see his first march and he enjoyed himself no end. He loved the bands, the crowds and some of the old diggers waved to him as I waved his little arm.
Lest we forget.
An Irish association marches.
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One of many marching bands.
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Must..get..to..the..phone!
Free time
Sunshine after the rain
Thursday, April 24, 2008
What I'm reading
Nancy Wake by Peter FitzSimons
Ask most Australians to name a military engagement which involved Australians and they will almost certainly say Gallipoli.
Ask again and they will probably mention Kokoda.
After that things get a little hazy.
Like most, I know that Tobruk saw fierce battles in WII and that Australians were involved, but little more than that.
Peter FitzSimons sets out to dispel the ignorance surrounding Tobruk and bring to public attention the men who fought there, those diggers known as the Rats of Tobruk.
Tobruk was a vital harbour port in North Africa. Rommel, at the head of his much vaunted and undefeated Afrika Korps, believed that he could take the city in 2 days. The Australians, along with British and Indians were asked to hold out for two weeks. They held on for eight months, against the might of the German panzer armies and Luftwafe.
This book is a page turner in the best sense. It reads more like a novel than a history and draws wonderful portraits of Australians in the battle and at home, Germans, Poles and British.
FitzSimons deep admiration for these men is obvious. He makes use of the vernacular and if the battle scenes sometimes read like something from Battle Action, the effect on the men who fought and their humanity is not forgotten.
I recommend this book to anybody with a love of history or just a good story.
Nancy Wake was born in New Zealand in 1912, her family moving to Sydney when she was two. She was a free spiritied young woman who paid little heed to convention and left for adventures in New York, London and Paris when she was 18. She became a journalist based in France, where she lived a part girl existence, before meeting and marrying Henri Fiocca. When the war came, Nancy and Henri helped to operate an escape line for Allied service men, Jewish and other refugees. With the Gestapo closing in, Nancy had to use the line herself to escape to London.
There she was recruited to the SOE and sent back to France where she lived and fought with the Resistance. She is highly decorated.
FitzSimons draws a portrait of an amazing woman, unorthodox, passionate and a fierce scourge of the Nazis.
Again, I highly recommend this book.
Welcome to Sydney, Ireland
It feels like Irish weather.
The dams, of course, have seen very little of the falls.
Monday, April 21, 2008
At swim two boys
Today, we ventured back to the water, this time to the leisure pool at Cook and Phillip Park. We went with Magda and her baby boy Jan, who is a day older than Cillian. Jan has been swimming for a couple of months now and is very relaxed in the water.
Cillian was very good. He was a little apprehensive and was happy to cuddle up to me, but he did have a go at floating on his tummy and back and bobbing up and down in the water. He was happiest sitting in the shallow water, where he could splish splash away.
There were a few tears, but not too many and he was a contented little fellow when I swaddled him in a big towel.
It will be a regular thing for the four of us and hopefully Saoirse and Rex will join us soon.
Mad good chocolate cake
Spuddy
It’s quiet now upstairs and I find Sharon in Cillian’s room, feeding him. As soon as the bottle is warm enough, she hands him to me and goes back to bed. She needs her rest, as she has returned to work. She turns off the little light on the baby monitor, but leaves the lower landing light on. The diminished glow ghosting through a small internal window above the bedroom door is more than enough for me to see.
Our baby is tired, thankfully, he had a big day at Magda, Francois and Jan’s apartment, playing with the other babies there.
His eyelids slowly lower till I can barely see his pupils, which scan left and right, seeing neither the real world nor the world of baby dreams. His suckling becomes reflexive and I speak to him gently and on a couple of occasions, wind him, hoping to make him slightly more alert so that he will feed well and sleep better.
His left hand, soft and warm, strokes my arm, but even that movement stills.
Outside the bedroom door, Spuddy starts to snore. Our big marmalade tom was mightily put out by the arrival of Cillian. He has come round, though he loves it when Cillian has gone to bed and its just Sharon and I in the living room. He shuttles back and forth between our laps, till he eventually finds the one that is warmest and settles down, basking in the attention.
Often, when Cillian is playing on the rug downstairs, he will share the space with the baby, not too put out by flailing feet or arms.
Shortly after Cillian moved into his cot and his own room just a few weeks ago, Spuddy took to sleeping outside the bedroom door. He won’t enter, at least not when I am there and even ignores the door to our bedroom if it stands ajar, denying himself what was once cat Nirvana. He prefers now to sleep outside the baby’s door.
Cillian is fast asleep and I place him in his cot, tuck him in and kiss him goodnight, wearily heading back to bed, turning off the landing light.
It’s four in the morning and Spuddy is snoring outside the baby’s door.
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Another week begins
Friday, April 18, 2008
Stay at home Dad
To their eternal credit, the company I work for give men three months paid parental leave, as long as they are the primary carer.
So this week, its was just the boys at home.
The days have taken on a rhythm, get up around seven or whenever Cillian wakes. In the morning he is usually happy to chatter away to himself for a while, before coughing to announce that he is ready to get up. Change nappies, dress the little man, dress myself and entertain Cillian while Sharon gets ready for work. Mum feeds the bub and then its the boys on their own.
We play, then either Cillian sleeps in his cot, or we go for a long walk, where hopfully he will crash.
Lunch, play and then an afternoon walk, hopefully with a snooze for the little fellow.
Then Mum is home.
It is full on , but a lot of fun and I'm so glad to have been given the opportunity to spend so much time with my baby. He is six months old now and becoming more and more aware of his world.
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Taking a breaak
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Seven Marathons in seven days
A small number of walkers and runners accompanied Dave today, among them members of Sydney's remarkable Achilles Running Club.
Dave is raising funds and awareness for the Guide Dogs Association.
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
What we did for Easter
This is Gerringong and Werri Beach, a two hour drive south of Sydney. We spent two nights here with our friends, Liz, Rhett and their children Liam and Erin. Its a lovley spot and we had a lot of fun. The neighbouring kids come to play and Cillian had a ball, particularly with Erin and four year old Bronte from next door.
We made a lot of balloon animals, swords and hats, had a run, a dip in the sea and a game of badminton and Easter mass at the lovely little Gerringong church of St Mary, Star of the Sea.
I ran today
Two weeks ago, I started an eight week schedule to get me ready for a half marathon in late May. Unfortunately, after a single run, I came down with the flu, not a cold mind, but the flu. I tried an easy jog last Tuesday, pushing Cillian in his jogger, it went well, but the following day I paid for it, with a return of the flu at its most virulent.
So a week later I ran again, the same easy flat run around Rushcutters Bay, with its marina and views over the water to the city and Manly. My legs felt tight and heavy, like I had already been running for two hours. But it was a beautiful morning, the rain giving way to warm sunshine and towards the end of the run, I felt a tiny little bounce come back into my stride. I feel good now, writing this several hours later. Hopefully, tomorrow I will still feel good and go for another run.
Arachnaphobia 2
Scores more baby huntsman appeared overnight, speckling the hall ceiling. I should point out that they are tiny and harmless. For the most part, I used a brush to get them outside, the brushhead streaming with mite sized spiders decending on silken threads, like commandos from a helicopter. Unfortunately, a obstinate few tucked themselves out of reach of the brush, so I had to get a ladder and a vacuum cleaner. I would have preferred if they'd have come quietly.
By the way, mummy huntsman protects her egg sacs for three weeks.
Monday, April 7, 2008
What I'm reading
A Memoir of the Cuban Missile Crisis
by Robert F. Kennedy
This is a spare and illuminating account of thirteen days in October 1962 when the world teetered on the brink of nuclear war.
Arachnaphobia
Sharon was not impressed to find about 200 baby Huntsman spiders covering part of the sitting room wall this morning. They are tiny, just a few mms across. However, this afternoon we found Mum, or at least we think it was Mum. She was trying to hide from me and was sprinting across our hall wall and with Sharon anxious to have her out of the house (I trapped her in a lunch box and released her outside), I didn't manage to take a picture.
However, I've added a picture of an adult huntsman to give you an idea of what they look like. Our one had a body about3-4cms wide and her leg span was wider than my hand.
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Cillian's Christening
Ingrid van der Lee and David Behan are his godparents.
Fr Peter, Kumar, Richard, Saoirse, Francois, Jan, Magda, Mike, Ingrid, David, Annie, Joe, Sonya, Farzaneh, Tony, Therese, Madeleine, Genevieve, Sharon, Cillian, Emily, Angela, Niamh (missing are Phong looking after Rchel and Tanya, taking the picture)
Saturday, April 5, 2008
Mum and Cillian
Flu
Perhaps Monday I will try a little run.
Big week for the little man
Its all happening.
Snoozing in the park
What mischief can I get into next?
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
First blog
Anyway, here I am, again, this time the stay will hopefully be longer.
Lots of pictures of Cillian at http://www.flickr.com/photos/anthonydonnelly and osme videos on Youtube. But I've made the Youtube videos private and that is causing hassle as Youtube isn't quite as friendly as its meant to be.
Some I will see what I can do with vids on this blog